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Cunnilingus

So what is this funny cunnilingawhatever word anyways? Cunnlingus is the technical term for oral sex that is performed on a woman. It's a funny thing it is and something that scares a lot of guys away, which doesn't make any sense because if a girl can go down on a guy, he should be more than willing to return the favor. So how exactly does it work you ask? Well...

Remember that this isn't an attack on her. It is a delicate skill that requires patience, practice and dedication to get right, but once you do, will bring any woman to her knees. Remember that there is no right or wrong way, per se, and that everyone is different.

We are going to assume you know what the female genitalia looks like. If you aren't quite sure of the whereabouts of things, check out this diagram. Recognize that women prefer gentler and more rhythmic stimulation than men and an advantage of using the tongue instead of the fingers is that it naturally produces the right amount of pressure and lubrication.

The tongue and lips are obviously the source of most oral stimulation. Teeth have no real use down there at this time. The clitoris is your main area of concentration. You want be careful though and not go after it as in the beginning the clitoris is often to sensitive for direct stimulation. It may also disappear under its hood at some stages of arousal. In this case, the hood and labia should be stimulated to indirectly stimulate the clitoris.

The tongue can be used flat to broadly stroke areas or pointed to tease a small area. Linear, circular or any other imaginable motions can be used. The lips can apply suction, press something between them, or have their wet and outward rolled in surfaces used for broad strokes like the tongue.

You can blow a narrow stream of cool air at a spot or breathe warm air over an entire area. Light teasing and varied stimulation are good for early arousal, but steady rhythmic stimulation is best for bringing your woman to orgasm.

The best advice is to take your time and be patient. Listen to her as you work your magic. Chances are if she begins to moan, she likes what you are doing! Learn her responses and avoid changing stimulation to quickly or too often which will prevent her from getting excited. Also keep in mind that repetitive motion can bore her and lose its effectiveness.

1 comment:

  1. got your blog accidentely, and although i dont have sex (not allowed before marriage in my case), i found your article about oral sex very interesting, coming especially from a woman.

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