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Some Common Reasons Why Women Dump Men

Many times when men get dumped by women they hardly understand the reasons why they got dumped especially when they have believed that their relationship is going great. It is not always easy to understand and may leave one wondering what went wrong. Understanding the reasons can be the key to patching things up and getting back together or even avoiding breaking up in the first place.

Many times when men get dumped by women they hardly understand the reasons why they got dumped especially when they have believed that their relationship is going great. It is not always easy to understand and may leave one wondering what went wrong. Understanding the reasons can be the key to patching things up and getting back together or even avoiding breaking up in the first place. There can be several reasons why women dump men. Some of them can be

* One of the top most reasons why she did so can be because you cheated behind her back. No women wish to have a cheating spouse or lover.
* Many women do not like their partners to be control freaks or opinionated. It is only natural for a woman to retaliate sooner or later.
* Arguments may happen between couples but if you are not willing to sit down and discuss the issues and resolve it then the relationship is bound to end. Communication is the key for any relationship.
* She dumped you because you do not give her space and let her make her own decisions. You sulk when she tells you that she has plans to go out with her friends and is overly possessive. She may also dump you if you are not around her when she wants you and you do not have time for her.
* Trust is an important part of any relationship. When you are overly suspicious and do not trust her then you have given obvious reasons for her to leave you.
* You have not been polite and respectful to your woman and never appreciated her.Woman want their men to treat her like a lady. You are cocky and arrogant and always put him first. You are abusive and inattentive to a woman’s needs. Lack of appreciation can be one main reason why women dump men. If they don’t feel appreciated even any expensive gifts won’t make up for it. Women do not like men who take them for granted or treat them like a doormat.
* You are being too critical. Although a little constructive criticism can be good when you constantly keep correcting her on anything and everything it is natural for her to get annoyed with you.
* You do not know not dress or present yourself properly that she feel ashamed to be in your company.
* You are dishonest and secretive causing her to suspect you and then leave you.
* Another popular reason women dump men is because they are judgmental of her, her friends or family. You have to understand that these people are important to her and that she’ll be very defensive about them.
* She just outgrew you. You are too predictable and the excitement and the spark in the relationship are gone. She does not see a potential future with you.
* Women want their men committed and responsible. They want a partner they can count on in the future. If you are taking things too slow she may get annoyed.
* Woman may leave you because you do not have the money. Financial security is a major quality that women look for in a man. Women like to be pampered and kept in comfort and when she does not get it she may break away. However, No women like a guy who treat her like a ‘high maintenance’ project and continually remind her of it.
* You have other priorities. Friends, job and your own family comes before her. No women like to be a poor second to your friends and family.
* She found some one else who is more appreciative and attentive than you are or may be she simply wanted a change; something different and new.
* You may have neglected her in several different ways. Not only sexually but in the daily things that she had to seek the attention elsewhere. You stopped listening. Even though you don’t need to hang on her every word you must be receptive to what she is saying. No women want a man who is not interested in her or care for her. A relationship involves give and take and that means sharing sometimes a bit more than we are used to.
* Every woman wants to feel needed and if you are the independent and macho type who thinks you do not need anybody then you have given a reason for her to move away from you.
* You compare her negatively with your mother.
* You are a gay.
* You are impotent.

The above given are some common reasons why a Women may dump a man and what a women want in their men. But I am sure there can be more, Please feel free to add through comments.

( by Anamika S )