- Consider foreplay a 24-hour experience that happens in and out of the bedroom.
- Play to your strengths by being confident in your abilities.
- Think in terms of stimulating her vulva rather than just penetrating the vagina.
"Sure, familiarity can breed boredom, but it can also yield consistent orgasms. "As a sex therapist and founder of GoodinBed.com as well as the author of numerous books on the subject of pleasuring, such as She Comes First, I guess you could say I have one thing on my mind. Sex is pretty much all I think about and talk about all day (and if I’m lucky, I also get to do it with my wife). Over the years, I’ve learned a thing or two about how to pleasure a woman, so without further ado, here are my 10 “best practices” for being truly good in bed.