6 Important Tips On Making A Man Go Crazy For You

There is hardly any woman who would get into a relationship with a man expecting a fall-out. Unfortunately, this is a pretty common scenario, and the women are often left wondering why things turned out as they did.

If you would like to get a man and keep him, you need to know how to make him go crazy about you. You should cause him to want you very strongly. But how do you achieve this? This article is going to give you some important tips that will help you out.

1. Show your independence
One of the important steps in enhancing a man’s interest in you is to be strong. Although they don’t normally say it, men are attracted to independent women. If you think that sticking to a man all the time is what will work then you are wrong.

2. You are not a tick
Constantly sticking to a man will just make him think of avoiding you. You don’t have to be always in front of him, prepared to do anything he says.

3. Don’t take his place
As much as we talk about equality, there are some roles that you can not just assume when you want a strong relationship. When you give a man the chance to show his masculinity, then he will take the queue and lead. Be thankful when he helps you in some way.

4. Know how to enjoy life
You should not expect to attract a man if you have a gloomy appearance.

5. Give relevant support
No matter how strong someone is, there are moments when things are pretty low. Be there for him when he faces such circumstances.

6. Always be pretty
Do not relax when you think that you have already got your man. If you do not continue being as smart as you used to be at the beginning, he will be attracted to other pretty women instead.

These 6 simple tips will fire a man’s passion towards you.

By: Janet

How to rev up your sex life

The importance of sex in a relationship, especially a few years after marriage, is underrated and most couples have no clue as to just why and when it happens.

According to The Daily Telegraph, Denise Donnelly at Georgia State University believes that the sooner men and women start asking questions the sooner their situation might return to those passion-rich days of old. A sexless union may come about for many reasons, including a combination of any of the following.

It could be that:

A couple never had a lot of sex to begin with;

A specific event led to no sex, for example, the birth of a child or an affair;

Lovers are juggling too much between family, career, and other life demands;

Low sex drive due to physiological, mental, or relational factors;

A partner is uncomfortable with sex or his/her body and/or sexual skills and many more.

So how does one resuscitate the sex in their relationship?

"By taking care of the sex bit, one must attend to other matters as well. An action plan should include the following," said sex expert Dr Yvonne Fulbright.

1. Be introspective. You need to start with yourself, asking some tough questions on how your relationship got to this point. Items to consider include: What does the lack of sex indicate? Could it be that you're not a good match? Has your relationship reached its expiration date? Or, is there a much bigger problem to tackle outside of the bedroom?

2. Talk about your sex life and relationship. In doing so, you want to raise awareness without blaming or sulking. Simply point out what's going on without issuing ultimatums or making threats. Let your partner know that you want to talk about what can be done to fix things.

3. Only worry about yourselves. Don't allow yourselves to feel abnormal or unhealthy for not having sex, as society tends to make us feel. Don't put pressure on yourselves when it comes to having an "ideal" amount of sex.

4. Plan for a break. Get sex off of the back burner by making time for it on a regular basis. While the occasional vacation can be just what the doctor ordered, seek to take time off from work (and send any kids away) to be alone at home. Balance this with efforts to connect outside of the bedroom and in non-sexual ways.

5. Seek professional help to establish or re-establish communication. Working with a therapist or counsellor is great to establish a safe environment. Such a professional can help you to reach your goals, examine the reasons for a lack of motivation, and face past and present influences that are contributing to the situation.

"Such data should be plenty of incentive to end this sexual starvation. Let it go any longer, and one becomes weaker with greater frustration, feelings of isolation, and lower self-esteem," Fulbright added.

What not to do when kissing

When it comes to sex and love, there’s no such thing as too much knowledge. No matter how much experience one has, there are always some things that were missed, some bits of information that did not reach him or her. And since most people have other things to do with their lives than striving to become a sort of walking sex and love encyclopedias, it follows that everybody needs tips now and then.

Among the physical expressions of love, kisses are very versatile tools in the emotional kit of any human being. From the short and tender kiss of a grandmother, to heads of state briefly touching their lips to each other’s cheeks and on to passionate lovers French kissing their way to a hot session of sex, it’s obvious that our lips can express many things.

And since the best kisses are those that come out right, some tips are in order for the use of people who either don’t get much practice or are not catching up fast on what they should do. Don’t laugh! Nobody was born knowing how to do this or that thing. We all have to learn.

While we can all be thankful to the French for opening the door to the intimate play of tongues (although it’s not clear whether the French kiss comes from Paris or not), kissing is actually a universal language that can be learnt by all people. Traditionally, French kissing has been associated with the Western world, from which it’s now spreading around the globe.

When preparing to go for the kiss, take your time for a reality check. Is the girl willing to go along with this or not? If you’re about to make your approach and the girl gets an embarrassed look on her face and starts fidgeting in her chair in what may be seen as an evasive maneuver, then pull back and give her some breathing space. Don’t rush things because you’re going to regret it.

First thing you need to know is that French kisses are not meant for the first date, unless, of course, the girl is quite the party animal and you both know that your date has only one purpose. In that case, anything goes if you can get away with it; even sex in the restaurant’s lavatory. Or if the girl is so clearly willing that there can be no mistake about it. But in all other cases, save French kissing either for the end of the date or for another date.

Two things that girls hate is to have guys shoving their tongues down their throats and to have their oxygen supply cut off during kissing. Therefore, you need to take care that you leave the girl enough room to breathe or to break the kiss every now and then. This will also help you, because you also need the oxygen. Two people kissing are sharing an intimate moment, not engaging in an endurance test or in a race to the death.

When actually going for the kiss, don’t charge with your tongue sticking out or your mouth. This can gross out even the hardcore promiscuous people. Put your lips against hers and only then let your tongue come out to play. And don’t stab her mouth with your tongue. Keep your cool and read her emotions. If she wants more passion or a little rough play, then go ahead and do what you think best. If not, then keep your tongue to yourself.

On the other hand, if both you and your partner find yourselves exhausted by a prolonged session of passionate kissing, then you are on the right path. It means that she enjoys your kisses and that she probably doesn’t mind going even further. Just remember to refrain from rushing things. The slow path is sometimes best.

What is ur Style of Sex !?

There are 3 basic sex styles. Sex in a marriage is an important factor. Sex relieves you of all tension and a marriage with good sex is healthier and lasts longer. But every person has his own style of sex and feels aroused and satisfied when they try out their sexual pattern. But at one stage sex becomes very monotonous and then you do need some variety. In this article we have brought for you the three basic sex styles and what you should do to spice up your sex life if you get bored of it. The recipe for a great marriage is having an equal balance of the three.

Quickie
Couples who are very busy and don't get time to make love at ease basically adopt this style of sex. They are ideal for those marriages in which the man has a higher sexual requirement and urge than the woman. Quickies are perfect for a heated and steamy sexual encounter and bring in the passion and excitement in to the marriage. As a relationship enhancer, quickies can't be topped; men love them, and it brings back life into your marriage. However it wanes off over the period of time. Men always love it but for women quickie becomes frustrating coz it is not satisfying and they ultimately feel cheated.

If thus you have reached the stage where you no longer enjoy quickie and feel resentful because your husband reaches climax every time he has sex and you have an orgasm maybe once in 6 times then its time you did something about it. You can approach your husband and be frank about it. Tell him that it doesn't work any more and that a longer session makes you feel sexier and more turned on. If you cant be so frank then try to find a way where it will be able for the two of you to give more time to one another and enjoy sex for a longer time. Prepare a bath for him, give him good body massage and then make love the whole night…..you just have to buy time then from your busy schedule.

Comfort Sex
Comfort sex is the binding factor in a relationship. When two people loves one another and know each other's body, moods and passion spots then comfort sex is fun. Thus this kind of sex is possible only when two people know each other. This kind of sex is more loving and caring than just trying to reach an orgasm and being satisfied. This is caressing the partners mind than body. It's not about athletic prowess or numbers of orgasms, but rather about the bonds of time, experience, and intimacy you and your husband share.

But mind you too much comfort sex is boring and it can be killing for the sexual relationship. If you feel that you are having only comfort sex then its high time that you had a steamy and passionate sexual encounter with your partner to bring the passion back into your marriage. Thus plan a date with your husband after the kids are off to bed. Wear something you feel sexy in and light some candles. Have a candlelight dinner and make love on the kitchen table. This change in circumstances inevitably will lead to a change in sexual experience and your relationship.

Passionate Sex
This kind of sex is basically done in the heat of the moment without thinking about the place and occasion. You are aroused and all that you need is to satisfy yourself. It can also be termed as special occasion sex since couples go out on a vacation specially to get the passionate sex back into their life. Special-occasion sex is the thing that breaks up the monotony and gives you the chance to fall in love again and also reminds you that you have been a hot couple. The other kind of passionate sex is to experiment and find out new kinds of mind-blowing sex. In exploring and experimenting, you might discover something that really feels wonderful, and suddenly the sex is something you crave for every moment and at all times. Maybe it's a new position or some sensual music that pushes you over the edge. The only way to find what turns both of you on is through trial and error. To have passionate sex when you have loads of work and kids to take care of is an almost impossible thought but you have to work towards it. Small acts of sexual passion and urges will be very helpful to ignite the passion in both of you. Thus to have passionate sex you should have variety in your sex life. And pretty soon, you'll realize that variety really is the spice of a great sex life, and that marriage can be so full of fun and excitement.

Sensual Activities for Couples

Sensual Yet Non-Sexual Activities for Couples

Couple in tub Finding a new love interest often fills us with an unmistakable feeling of bliss, often described as a fluttery feeling in one’s stomach. Ten years gone by and you’ve still got butterflies flitting about? No doubt you are in love!
To give your relationship a nice balance of passionate playtime, consider varying your romantic routine from time to time. Every couple engages in a different style of sexual behavior, but turning things down a notch in the lust department and heating them up on a sensual level can truly re-ignite the spark that initially drew you together.

No matter if your romance has survived the test of time or if it is merely beginning its path down love lane, take the time to pamper your partner, and enjoy some pampering yourself! Consider these options for a romantic, passion-filled evening, and modify them to suit your relationship’s style and your and your partner’s needs.

Spend an evening preparing a romantic dinner together. Set some melodic music to play gently in the background as you prepare food together and indulge in a glass of wine. Relax and take pleasure in the culmination of your combined efforts. Linger at the table until the last drop of wine has kissed your lips and stare deeply into each other’s eyes. Challenge your mate to hold your gaze simply by the intensity caught within your eyes. Share a slice of dessert on the same plate and take the time to feed each other the delicious delight. As your meal concludes, kick off your shoes and hold each other close as you begin to slow dance in the living room.

Treat each other to aromatherapy and full-body massages with essential oils. First decide if you would like to wear your bathing suits, your undergarments, a towel, or less. Select a location such as a comfortable bed, a lounge chair or a nice clean spot on the floor, stretched across a soft blanket. You may choose to play gentle background music or sounds such as ocean or brook soundtracks, or those featuring the wind, rainforests, etc. Be sure to select an aromatic essential oil to massage into your sweetheart’s skin for a soothing and sensual experience.

Take turns pampering each other and stimulating one another’s muscles by firmly massaging the back, neck, shoulders, arms and even the hands to start. Pay special attention to the lower back, as this area experiences a lot of stress from general daily activities and from being on the job. Work your magic on your partner from head to toe, focusing more energy on the muscles that seem tighter or those that have been neglected. The backs of one’s legs should benefit significantly if massaged properly. You may wish to consult a book on different types of massage before engaging in the full-body massage.

(just a cartoon depicting a No-No) Indulge in a hot bubble bath for two, complete with wine and sweet treats, candlelight and the spark between the two of you. Select a fragrant bubble bath that appeals to both your senses and drift away in a relaxing pool of warm, sudsy water. Gently caress each other’s backs and enjoy the peace and solitude surrounding you. Sip wine or hot tea, indulge in chocolates or small dessert pastries and revel in your stolen moments together. While the dim flicker of the candle sets the mood, the two of you can unwind in the comfort of a warm bath, wrapped in each other’s arms. If you are not yet at the point in your relationship where you feel comfortable taking a bath together, consider a dip in a hot tub under the stars at a bed and breakfast or fancy hotel. Go out for a night on the town in a bustling city and settle down for the evening by relaxing in the lodge’s sauna, swimming pool and whirlpool tub.

No matter what you do with your sweetheart during your passionate evening together, remember to pay special attention to his or her senses. Breathe sweet nothings into an unsuspecting ear, gently brush your fingertips across the arm while talking, trace a trail of soft, sweet kisses across the neck.
Let your heart dictate your every move and enjoy true love in all its bliss!

Kathryn